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Please watch video. Custody Court Delco. 7 years, no final order yet.

Submitted by Marina on Thu, 03/24/2022 - 10:20 Would my children had to spend their childhood motherless if mother was not poor? What if my ex had no money? Would the court withhold custody for 7 years to a fit mother? Did you ever know about a custody case lasting for so long? Filed date: April 2015. No hearing until November 2018. From November 2018 until present time more than 45 hearings in custody. No resolution. Should it be at the Guinness records? Dad (bigamist) has full custody. Children alienated against mom.

New Here - Introduction

Submitted by SoulP1976 on Wed, 10/27/2021 - 09:10
Hi, I was referred here by my therapist. I'm a single dad and father of a 7-year old girl. I live in Philadelphia, as does my daughter, who lives with her mother. Been divorced since 2017. Went over 1.5 years without seeing her until this summer. The main problem I have is needing competent legal help. The original custody agreement was filed in Chicago when we got divorced and my previous attorney hasn't been able to transfer the case to Philadelphia. I tried recently to come up with a new agreement with my ex wife but that go nowhere fast.

Haven't seen my daughter in a year barley hanging on

Submitted by vadasdaddy619 on Fri, 01/22/2021 - 15:06
My name is Brian and I have gone a year without seeing my daughter due to a bogus PFA i had gotten paternity established by a judge and she ran with my daughter now domestics police and da will not help me I'm in tamaqua pa please someone help

50/50 Custody.... Should I have to pay child support?

Submitted by MartyB42583 on Fri, 04/24/2020 - 11:26
Ok so I have 3 children of which I have exactly 50/50 custody of, recently I have had them in March for 20 days to 11 days. I pay a lot in child support when their mom is a nurse and makes more then me. The PA Child support calculator is outdated and based on primary and non primary custody. I have a lot of people that I know that do not have to pay since it is 50/50 but I always get stuck. Is there something I can do to fix this?

My girlfriend abandoned her son with me and i am his biological father

Submitted by Ivan Chavira on Wed, 04/01/2020 - 23:31
My son is 3 years old and he hasnt seen her son in two weeks. Me and my girlfriend had an argument about her spending my money we dont need when i was planning to buy my son things that he needed and she left she would txt me once in a while but she would just dissapear not even her own mother knows where she is at and with who. My son keeps asking for her and i lie to him saying that shes at work and she will come see h tomarow and he is so confused about things as much as i am but i keep my head up strong and tell him everything is gana be okay and that his mom will come soon.

Kid's First Custody Workshop

Submitted by pa parent on Wed, 11/06/2019 - 18:58
Is it a mandatory requirement in York County PA court for an individual to go to the Kid's First Custody workshop in a custody matter that was just initiated? The parents of the child were never married, never lived together and have never separated during the life of the child. The parents separated before the child was born.

Father rights and child support bias

Submitted by jannelyneshcka on Sun, 11/03/2019 - 22:10
My Husband been in his two kids life since they were newborn, he got a divorce because of probles in the marriage but he still an active father, a year later the father met me, we got engaged and had a child. The ex wifes became bitter and didn't let him see the kids, accept his gifts or spend time with him and met their new sibling .She put him on child support. He loss his job, his car everything he has because of child support, he didn't make no excuses he went to travel for jobs that may more to give money for their children.

Dealing with difficult mom with school decision

Submitted by HungLe on Tue, 09/03/2019 - 11:59
My son starts kindergarten on Thursday and we are in disagreement as to which school he will go to. She won't even consider my opinion and wants him to attend a school near her, Ressurection Regional Catholic School. I have him 4-5 days every week (switches each week) and it's not fair for me to have drive each way for the school she wants and it's not really that good of a school. Especially when Merion Elementary (#4 in the state) is half a block away from me in Narberth.