Can anyone help guide my next move. I recently learned that my spouse has been requested to leave her last know address (with her family), in another state, and has allegedly gone on to Calif or whereabouts unknown. So far she failed to apear at the first custody conference and the judge has set a hearing for December of this year. I haven't been permitted to know anything about our son for several months. Do I just sit and wait until December or is there another set I can make?